Chinese men dating culture
I’m not saying that is gonna happen, but there is a chance based on his current more conservative behavior.I know it’s a new relationship but many Chinese guys move fast so you need to know where you stand before you fall too hard.There’s not such an informal dating culture here as in the West, and the period of “secrecy” is kinda like the dating stage in Western countries.That way, if you break up soon, no harm done and no face lost.He always opened doors for me and wouldn't leave my side until he escorted me all the way to the entrance to my apartment.He helped me buy a bicycle at the secondhand market and even gave me a ride there on the back of his black metal bike.
Most couples in China hide their relationships from others until it’s serious.It seemed natural and normal to do the same in China.I didn't know much about China back then -- a time when I could only communicate in Mandarin with a dictionary and lots of patience, and where my entire cultural knowledge was amassed from the library books on China I borrowed during the summer.(You know China is very big on face.) The fact that he isn’t running around showing you off means he is serious.Often, when a guy just wants to date a foreigner for fun he will show her off to every single person he knows to get some street cred.